I had the honor and distinct pleasure of seeing Calpernia Addams again last year when she and Andrea James came to U of L to be the keynote speakers for the LGBT pride event on campus.
Their company Deep Stealth Productions put together a humorous video entitled 'Bad Questions To Ask A Transsexual' in which she points out what you don't ask us inside or outside of polite company.
The video is wildly popular and has garnered over a million views on YouTube since April 2008.
Enjoy!